Should I apologise?

I’d like to start by asking you a question – should a blogger apologise for their lack of blog posts?

I’m asking you this because I recently received a lovely message from Khoi Vinh ( a pretty famous Design Director who used to work at the New York Times) expressing his profound regret for the lack of activity on his blog. I was pretty impressed by this because I am aware that his life has been a little busy of late, due to the arrival of his beautiful twin sons. I forgave him instantly, even though I don’t actually know him and he doesn’t know me. I feel like it mattered to him that he had not had a chance to write. He felt that he had let his subscribers down, even though he had a brilliant excuse.

Sometimes I subscribe to new blogs and am disappointed when nothing arrives in my mailbox. Don’t they care that I have recently joined their band of followers and want some ‘good stuff’?  In other words, I’m looking for thought-provoking, well written content that I can absorb and hopefully mull over when I’m bored. How selfish!

Why do I have this expectation that another busy person has the time and energy to constantly feed me with good quality content, especially when I have been so lax myself?

I don’t always react like this though… I have also received posts from people apologising for their lack of activity and I must admit to thinking that they were a bit full of themselves. Do they really think I had noticed that they hadn’t posted lately. Did they promise me anything when I signed up? Probably not.

So now we get to me (as you knew we would). I haven’t posted for a while but I’m sure it matters not a whit to the world. I don’t have any subscribers (maybe just one lovely follower – hello you), still I feel like I’ve been letting people down – weird isn’t it?

So in my wholly self-centred way, I vow to post more regularly, just in case there’s anyone out there.

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